Enduring Churches Podcast with Alan and Trent

I2: Our Interview with Charles Boswell

More about pastoral care in Colorado

Episode 29: Invisible Leadership

Episode 29: Invisible Leadership

 

Key: If you are going to last in ministry you are going to have to develop a sense of transparency.

 

Acknowledge your weaknesses in leadership

 

Share that you struggle in your spiritual walk

• You don’t have to share everything publicly, but share some

 

Develop the ability to apologize

• We all make mistakes, own them

 

Learn the boundaries surrounding your pride and your humility

 

 

Learn to laugh at yourself.

I1: Our Interview with Luke Heirendt about Worship

We hope you enjoyed our interview with Luke Heirendt about worship in the local church.

You can contact Luke at luke@creekside.cc

Worship Team contract

 

 

Episode 28: Living in Your Strengths

living in your strengths

managing your weaknesses

 

I wish my daughter Jacque could be on with us today.  This is her ministry with Pastors and their families.  

 

You're not good at everything - so what are you really good at?  

ask yourself these questions -

What parts of my job really invigorate me?

• What do you think they are?
  • areas
    • preaching
    • teaching
    • admin
    • visioning
    • Pastoral care
    • Evangelism
    • relationships
• What do others think they are? - ask some trusted friends what they see are your strengths and weaknesses.  Listen - Listen!

 

What parts of my job suck the life out of me?  

 

 

God called someone to your church who is better at somethings than you are

This may sound counter intuitive but in order for our churches to grow - the pastor has to do less.

 

always be growing

•  especially in your strengths
  • Tend to put ourselves in cruise control

 

always be giving away ministry

• Investing in others
  • Hard work

 

Leaders won't stay if they don't have a real job.

 

 

Be humble, hungry, and smart (Patrick Lencioni, The Ideal Team Player)

Episode 27: The Money Trap

Types of receipts

1. general or undesignated
2. Designated - discourage designated
3. Special offerings

 

Best way to measure is per person per week.

 

Budget

1. Do you have one?
2. do you control it or does it control you.
3. How do you put it together?
4. Is it complete
5. Deferred maintenance 

 

 

Important thoughts:

1. make a “tithe” a priority in your church does your church tithe? from your general receipts 10% to missions
2. Give back to your church
3. Share stories and reasons to give
4. Keep  it visible
5. Celebrate faithfulness 

Episode 26: Trends We See in Smaller Churches

 

 

Your role as pastor or as a church member has an effect on your perspective on the things that are going on.

 

Pretty obvious things…but some of our thoughts on these trends.

 

1. Diminishing ability to hire additional staff.
2. Struggles with music.
3. Disappearing traditional Sunday schedules.
4. Changing dynamic of midweek activities.
5. Changing worship times.
6. Changing nature of children/youth.
7. Technology aware but not having the expertise to run it.

Episode 25: Ministering in a Declining Area

Episode 25: Ministering in a Declining Area

All over the country, smaller communities are dying as more and more people move to cities, and in some cities, even some communities are changing to business centers so that the number of people is diminishing.

1. Is it a factual decline or apparent decline…demographics?
2. Your people might not recognize the reality.
3. Most declining communities are aging communities.
4. Accept that there is a life cycle for churches.
5. Love the people; reach all you can.
6. Consider partnerships.
7. Allow a church to die gracefully.

Episode 24: Meet the Wives, Pt 2

The Big Thing - It’s not okay to be on different pages

 

A or T: You both mentioned this as your biggest issues? Why is that so important?

Are both of you called and committed to the ministry?

 

Unique that both need a sense of calling, but only one is on staff

 

Time Matters

Rachelle: The importance of engaged time at home.

• We know wives need to realize they will share their husbands with the church family.

Dana: Protect couple time and family time. Go on dates and family vacations.

•     Mission trips are not vacations.

•     Walmart and hospital visits....lol

 

Serve the church

Church member expectations?

 

Encourage your spouse to focus on their strengths and spiritual giftedness.

    Do not feel pressured to take on ministry projects just because someone in your church thinks you should. Delegate.

 

Survival Tips:

 

• Protect your children from expectations and from hearing conversations.

 

• Pray for one another and pray together.

 

• Have a teachable spirit.

 

• Be willing to ask for help when you need it. Find mentors and/or counselors who can bring an objective viewpoint.

 

• It's ok to make friends and enjoy them.

Episode 23: Meet the Wives, pt 1

Episode 22: Being A Pastor's Kid

Episode 22: The Pastor’s Kid

Special Guest Jacque Young

 

Your Kids are Not on Staff/I “Voluntold” You 

• It's good for them to be involved 

• You can teach them 

• You can't force them 

• You should ask their permission 

 

God, Family, then Church/Prioritizing 

• Church is not God 

• God made you head of this family, so you have a responsibility to it 

• Don't leave your kids without a father by being absent all the time 

• Don't breed resentment in your own family by over scheduling them or you 

• Teach them to love and serve God, but try not to take them on a mission trip for every birthday 

 

Things Your Kids Want You to Know 

• They're human 

• They need you 

• You can't protect them from everything 

• They don't want to be a sermon prop 

• They want to make you proud 

• They're proud of you